Wednesday, May 23, 2007

What about spontaneity

I always try to control my actions, my gestures and the way I behave. In majority of cases I succeed in it. What I cannot control are my feelings and sensations. From time to time I am missing the possibility of being perfectly spontaneous and act according to what I really feel.

Sometimes I think that the lack of spontaneity is caused by the fear (or probably in my case this is the reason why I am not acting spontanously)...what would others say, if I did this in that way...how would the other person react if I did this etc. So we act as we are supposed or as we learned to act.

But what would happen, if we acted in the way we feel in that special moment? Would everything go wrong? Or would we feel even better and happier??

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